Oh. We talked about it, it's alright. Basically, he thought that because I was off-handedly concerned, I thought he was incapable of taking care of himself -- well, there's more, but that's the gist of what you were talking about.
Lalli is...different. I can't explain why in some ways, but he just is. I guess you just have to know how to talk to him.
( Emil wants Lalli to have nice things. Jude is a nice person. This should be simple!!! How can he connect Idea A to Solution B. )
Oh! Jude -- your world has spirits and the like, right? Lalli's a mage, so he's interested in things like that! You can talk about all that magical jargon I have no idea about.
I don't know if that will do the trick -- but if you talk about something you have mutual experience in, and it's what he's best at, then that shouldn't have anything to do with talking down to him.
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Lalli is...different. I can't explain why in some ways, but he just is. I guess you just have to know how to talk to him.
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But hopefully I'll learn, right? I'm not the type to give up on people that easily.
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I want Lalli to have more friends...is it bad to want that if it's not what he wants?
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Oh! Jude -- your world has spirits and the like, right? Lalli's a mage, so he's interested in things like that! You can talk about all that magical jargon I have no idea about.
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I mean, I can see how I can bring it up next time we bump into each other...
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And I'll report back with results!